A deep and dark Black Hole!!!
Davia | Mar 10, 2010 | Comments 10
Living without both of my parents is a struggle. My brother and I have to travel from place to place and it’s kind of challenging. My parents are divorced. Sometimes, I wish that it never happened. Sometimes, I think it was all my fault, but I know it isn’t. But I really don’t understand why they divorced.
This is a serious matter that everyone should recognize because it seems to be happening to every happy couple I know. Some days, I cry because it’s like half of my heart got sucked in by a deep, dark, black hole. It’s crying out for help but no one can. It’s REALLY hard! Here I am now, crying, writing this story. Some people don’t know how much it hurts when I see a family of four when my family only has three.
It hurts the most when you meet a new member of the family. It feels like your parent forgot about you and isn’t trying to help you to get out of that deep, dark, black hole. You may think it’d be fun to have different families, but to me it’s not. I love them all but sometimes I wish things could go back to normal.
I want strong families to stick and stay together…forever!!!! Love them like I love mine. Trust them like I trust mine. Be nice to them like I am to mine. And always, always hold on to them and don’t let them get sucked into that deep, dark, ugly, dull, black hole.
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Davia, Thank you for sharing your heart and soul in this posting and I’m so sorry to hear that you are going through this right now. My heart aches for you and I wish there are things I can do. Please don’t ever think that this is your fault ever again. One really good thing that came out of that marriage is YOU. You are special. You are a smart and a beautiful girl and I know that your parents love you. BIG HUG Davia.
What a powerful message to all couples considering divorce. You are immensely brave to share your experience, Davia. You’ll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Hi Davia,
So sorry to hear what you’re going through, must be really tough. You have nothing to do with your parent’s divorce.
Focus on the good things in your life and follow your dreams in the meantime! I’ll watch out for you as the next Oprah!
hugs,
Benedict
Dear Davia,
What a courageous post to write. I am very sorry to hear about your parent’s divorce. Sometimes, you won’t comprehend why things turn out the way they do. Know that you are a special blessing as a result of their time together and you are a gift to them and to your world.
God bless you!
Hi. My heart broke when I read your story. I have a niece that said the same thing”she thought it was her fault” to me when her parents got divorce. I remember thinking why would she ever think that. I think children need answers they don’t understand “we don’t love eachother anymore” because all children know is how to love.
I want to encourage you to reach out to the Lord and ask Him to begin to heal your broken heart and He will. He loves you so much and knows exactly what you need. My prayer for you is that black hole you feel like your in will begin to be brighter and brighter and you will feel whole again. What a beautiful girl you are. And remember its not your fault.
Davia, Thank you for your post and I’m sorry to hear that it’s such a dark time for you. Remember that nothing stays the same forever; your feelings will change and more people will come in & out of your life. It appears your writing about it is helping you to discover who you are — an excellent way to learn from your experiences. None of this is your fault and be sure to keep telling yourself that!
Now go get Oprah!
Davia,
I am very sad to hear that you think you are at fault for your parent’s divorce. To go through this at such a young age is definitely not easy. I hope you will be able to communicate your feelings with your parents and continue to have a good family environment at home. I know you will overcome this and one day be a great parent yourself.
Anita
Thank you all for blessing me in your prayers. I will leave you guys with more great work. Thanks a lot and remember this message! I love the fact that you understand what I am saying. Thanks!!!
hi davia its your friend i loved your story i think you should keep writting more storys
Oh I am so sorry. I can just imagine living without my father or mother and then getting a step father. i was also wondering if you would like to be bffs so if you need a shoulder to cry on i will be there.